entering into coaching with me will bring an entirely fresh perspective into your life
"As a child you have to cue off of parents or cue off of siblings after teachers and the world. So the first 18 years of our development are organized around cueing off of others - the bulk of it -especially when it is difficult. So we come into our adulthood very embedded and established in a style of looking to the other as if they are the location of the problem and the solution - because that is the Childs world.” — Bruce Tift (author/psychologist).
When we start working with the Enneagram, we move out of a pattern that laid its roots in childhood and start to move deliberately towards a truly mature perspective. The journey to inhabiting our True Self is not lined with rainbows and butterflies - as adults we have to tread through some bleak, unsatisfying, sad, and scary terrain - Inevitably, life will force us to look at these, simply because we can’t turn away - These less pleasant aspects of our experience can actually be portals to inner freedom, however, most of us have unconscious defense mechanisms, inherent blindspots, and harsh inner critics that create barriers to learning how to be with the nuance and complexities.
My coaching approach is based in the understanding that Self Compassion, rather than harsh self criticism — is essential for mental health, motivation, resilience and accessing who we truly are. I offer my years of study, specialized guidance, as well as accessible tools to help you learn to navigate and open up the outdated and limiting unconscious patterns that have been running your life and identity. When we safely and compassionately witness the sense of deficiency or lack that is the core of our personality’s motivation, we are then able to shift into what Maslow describes as “the fully functioning human being” who is motivated out of abundance.
When discussing what “to do” with the information from the Enneagram, Claudio Naranjo, the Chilean psychologist who contributed a significant portion of the body of work that is now know as the Enneagram of personality — Shared that a particular ripeness where the individual is motivated and ready to look, specialized guidance, as well as “intimate confession”, are particularly helpful on this path of Self Study.
I am here to hold a mirror with steady hands, and love, and to walk alongside you in the miracle, and mystery of becoming who you truly are.
With Love, Nicole
Our session will be
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Personalized
Our initial sessions focus on understanding your unique Enneagram type, current challenges, and personal goals. Together, we’ll create a coaching plan tailored specifically to support your growth and self-awareness.
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Targeted
Everyone has unconscious patterns and blind spots that hold them back. I’ll help you identify these hidden blocks and guide you in transforming them into opportunities for greater freedom and authentic living.
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Integrative
True personal growth involves more than insight alone. Alongside Enneagram wisdom, I’ll support you in cultivating mindfulness, emotional resilience, and grounded presence—tools that enrich your whole life beyond coaching sessions.
1:1 Coaching
3 weekly 1-hour coaching sessions
Clear understanding of your Enneagram strategy and the core fear, desire, and motivation
Insight into how your patterns show up in relationships, work, and stress
Foundational tools to begin interrupting automatic reaction
Outcome - You’ll leave with a clear internal “map” of yourself — why you do what you do, and where change begins
1:1 Coaching
Everything in Clarity Catalyst, plus deeper application
Real-time work with your Enneagram patterns as they show up in your daily life
Somatic practices to regulate your nervous system and expand your response range
Exploration of your growth path (Enneagram integration line) in action
Ongoing relflection and feedback to build consistency and self-trust
Outcome: You’ll begin to recognize your patterns in real time, building the capacity to pause and relate to your reactions with more awareness. This creates a wider range of responses in moments of stress and interaction. While patterns will still arise, your relationship to them becomes more conscious and less automatic.
Everything in Pattern Shift, with extended support for lasting change
Advanced somatic work to anchor regulation, presence, and resilience
Support in navigating more complex or layered patterns of defenses
Outcome: You’ll deepen your capacity to stay present with your internal experience, even when triggered, and begin relating to patterns rather than identifying with them.
Over time, a more consistent sense of internal support can emerge, expanding your range, resilience, and ability to respond with greater alignment.
Everything in Clarity Catalyst, plus deeper application
Real-time work with your Enneagram patterns as they show up in your daily life
Somatic practices to regulate your nervous system and expand your response range
Exploration of your growth path (Enneagram integration line) in action
Ongoing relflection and feedback to build consistency and self-trust
Outcome: You’ll begin to recognize your patterns in real time, building the capacity to pause and relate to your reactions with more awareness. This creates a wider range of responses in moments of stress and interaction. While patterns will still arise, your relationship to them becomes more conscious and less automatic.
How you’ll feel
more confident and clearheaded with increased energy and deeper sleep
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Comprehensive wellness assessment
Personalized nutrition, mindfulness, and exercise plan to help you reach your goals
Unlimited guidance and support via email
Helpful tools, tips, and tricks for navigating your unique obstacles
FAQs
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